Broken Hearted

I told myself once apon a time that I would never have my heart broken again. Well slap me and tell me to wake up cause yesterday did just that. I thought since Ive had my heart broken so many times I wouldnt be able to feel any more heart breaks. Been in a relationship for a year 2 months and 10 days and not once did I have my heart broken this bad. For all you in a new relationship that believes its going to go far dont hide from the one you love, if something is bothering you then tell that person because if you dont then itll start a fight later on. Youll make the other person feel like crap and feel like they are whats upsetting you. And if your looking to get back at the other person and make them feel the way you did when they upsetted you, DONT! It will be ONE of THE WORSET mastakes you ever make! It wont get you anywhere, all it will do is cause a huge fight and make the other person feel like you never cared to start with. It will lead to tears, throwing up, going to a friend and telling them you cant believe that person and everything else, it will also lead to you not speaking for a day or so and not only that but I guarantee you BOTH will say awful things to the other, in which you should have just ripped their heart out from the beginning. AND if your partner in the relationship says nothing is wrong when you ask them what is wrong, THEN NOTHING IS WRONG! Dont push him/her to tell you whats wrong when nothings wrong because it will start a fight! If him/her says nothing is wrong then leave it at then cause 9 time outta 10 nothing is wrong. And if you ask him/her if they are mad or upset and they said no THEN THEY ARENT MAD OR UPSET 9 times outta 10. BUT if you keep asking and asking and asking then it is gonna make them upset and then it'll start a fight because you will think that they were "hiding" from you. Just do yourself a favor and believe your partner in the relationship, it works alot better if you do. Dont make the other person the punching bag, the one that takes all the blame and says "yea your right, im sorry." and puts it all on themselves when it was probably your fault. A relationship will not get anywhere if theres no trust, honesty, and believing the other persons. Now I do believe all relationships grow stronger after fights but DONT go looking for one or starting one purposely. So thats all I have to say about this. Going to the dentist, maybe post something later but until then bye. 


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